Last night at adoption class one of the social workers told us that there are two situations in which a child would be automatically taken from the mother and put on an adoption track:
300(f) Conviction of Child’s Death – This means that another child has already been killed while under the care of the mother. I’m not talking about the baby had a heart defect and died. I’m talking about the baby died through abuse or neglect. The family is seen as an ongoing danger to the child so the child is removed.
300(h) Freed for Adoption – This means that the mother has already had her rights terminated for one child so they feel that it’s likely that this new child will be left in similar neglect or will be subject to similar abuse so they remove the child from the home.
It is my understanding that when this happens to a mother several times, she may choose to put her child up for adoption instead of having the courts terminate her parental rights. Why? When she makes an adoption plan she is allowed to get living expenses. Have you seen the adoption “situation” ads?
We are seeking a family with a completed home study for a Caucasian baby, sex not yet determined. No recent drug history. No reported health issues. Baby is due in February 2013. Mother has completed two previous adoptions in California, and wishes to have expense reimbursements of $10,000 like she received in California the last two times. The first part of those fees would be paid in monthly installments of $1,000 beginning immediately. Fees are $20,000.
Looking for a single or married couple to adopt full Latin baby (repeat birthmother x3) due in late February. California couple preferred. No drugs. No smoking. No alcohol. Total fees including birthmother expenses $26,500.
Stacey is 32 years old and pregnant with a baby girl, 25% Caucasian, 25% Hispanic and 50% African American. Baby is due in March 2013. Stacey does need immediate assistance with living expenses and is open to heterosexual couples and/or a single female
The social workers said that sometimes people stay away from foster care adoptions because they think the babies are damaged and don’t realize that when you adopt from an agency or attorney you might be getting a baby from a family has been involved with child protective services for three generations. You might be getting a baby that the mother knows is going to taken into foster care anyway … so why not get some living expenses until the baby arrives.
The world of adoption is much stranger than I ever imagined ….
Just throwing this one in ’cause it bugs me:
looking for a family that is home study ready, and Financially ready to adopt. We need a family for a full Hispanic baby Girl due 10/28/12. This is an excellent situation for the right family. Bithmother will consider a caucasian couple with dark hair childless , or hoping to have adopted a hispanic child. There are no drugs or substance abuse, No history of mental illness. She has 5 children she parents. We have medicals and photos of Birthmother and Her children. All very fair skinned.