I’m SUPER tied of people assuming that I/we/he can’t make babies and that’s why we’re adopting. Birth mothers lob, “I’m sorry you can’t have kids, but _____” around all over the internet and nothing could be further from the truth. Adoptees say, “You couldn’t have your own kids, so you got me as a replacement”. Nope.
I wish people would just say what they are upset about specifically instead of trying to demonize adoptive parents by painting us as baby stealers and less than.